YOU ARE EXCELLENT! You can
figure out many things by yourself, such as how to get to your department,
how to open an account, where to access to the Internet etc... You
can do it!
BE INDEPENDENT WHEN ASKING FOR HELP!
Not everyone you ask for might help you immediately, they might
be busy, or be in a bad mood. Don't let that upset you. You will
find people who are willing to help. Ask for information from them
but try to be as independent as you can.
SPEAK ENGLISH AS MUCH AS YOU CAN!
This is an excellent opportunity for you to learn how to ask people
with ENGLISH and not just CHINESE.
COMMUNICATE WITH OTHERS! No matter
if they are Chinese or American. You may find it is difficult to
understand and speak English at first. But that is a process that
everyone has experienced and overcome. Keep asking if you don't
understand. You can even ask them to spell the word out or write
them down.
IF YOU NEED TO, CRY! If you feel
frustrated, feel alone, and cannot get what you need, cry for a
while. It means you are alive. You are experiencing an important
moment in your life--growing up. You know you will be a greater
person. Remember, every great person will cry at least once in his/her
life. The sun will still rise tomorrow.
DON'T HESITATE, BE PROACTIVE!
You class began when you got on the airplane. You can get an A,
actually, you have to get an A. This is why you came here! This
land produces so many nice things, such as independent personality
and individuality. If you were not independent before, this is your
chance to be.
BE ALERT! You need to be aware
of your surroundings to protect yourself and your property. People
are the same the world over, there are good people and there are
bad people. Take care just as you would in China and you will be
fine. Our campus is a nice and safe place, but remember to always
protect yourself.
CALL A FELLOW STUDENT! If you
are upset or discouraged, call a fellow student. They might have
experienced the same thing you have. They can share their experiences
and how they triumphed.
NEVER FORGET: You can always get
help by sending emails to this address:
CSSA-L@LISTSERV.LSU.EDU
. It is a warm and nice community which includes almost every member
of the CSSA. People will reply to your e-mail very quickly and help
you out as much as they can. The Chinese Student and Scholar Association
(CSSA) will be at your service. We want to help you on your new
adventure.
Do not forget that you are excellent and
you can make it. As they say in America, "The world is your
oyster!"
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